人生中的"Wrong Man"

Wrong man enter your life without knowing the consequences..

Has anyone told you about the fairytale of the frog prince?

Has anyone said we've gotta kiss lotsa frogs before we meet the prince charming in life?

If there is a prince waiting for us, wouldn't life be easier if they really were just frogs and all we had to do was kiss them? Apparently, it is having relationships with quite a few of the wrong men before we meet the 'Mr Right' in life.

Mr. Wrong does help us to grow. Relationships aren't about dependence nor the company, it's all about learning and growing together.

Mr. Wrong helps us to discover which men will always be wrong for us. Some guys are wrong for me, but some guys are wrong for every woman. Some people might dole out some personal folk wisdom like : Never go out with man with bad reputation for fooling around. We might be determined to find out the hard way, particularly if we fancy him like mad.

Didn't really listen and had much fun ended up by just a glimpse of disaster. It's only by experiencing such conflict that you find out just how much it does matter.

Sometimes, Mr Wrong helps us to figure out what we can tolerate and what we can't. It's hard to learn what really matters in a relationship. When we are trying to decide what we want from a relationship, it's really helpful if we have an idea of what we want from life in general. Emotional openness, Integrity, Maturity and Responsibility, High self-esteem, commitment to own personal growth and a positive attitude to life.

However, those requirements are differs widely from the next person. One thing for sure we will learn from going out with the wrong man is how easy it is to figure out what we want from that relationship.

When a relationship break up because they ain't going anywhere, there's often a hidden agenda. Whether we are eager to know the truth, the answer will never come true. But one thing, if it's not right for us, please do not wait till it gets so bad that we aren't right for us either? Just leave the wrong man and look for the right one. Leaving for a better life.

Wrong man will always drags us down to his level but the right man encourages us to fly.

Comments

Shanz said…
i think your insight of relationships and love are so deep but understandable..
i think some points are agreeable or might not- the main factor is the timing that decides ..
i meant.. i'll probably agree if i'm not in lov... and it might be compelling if i am in one..
Shanz said…
just that was what i wanted to say as i read your blog... cant help myself...
sorry ..there's nothing offensive...
it's just wat i think ..
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and it's a good think you have actually have inside.. and all the best in your career...

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