Leeway between Rationality & Emotion

If you are rational thought and are attached to ideas and perceptions, then you tend to despice the emotions.
You can notice this tendency if we start to feel emotions...We don't like to be feeling anything because we can get unti a kinda high from the purity of intelligence and the pleasure of rational thinking.
The mind relishes the way it is logical and controllable, the way it makes sense.
It is just too clean, neat & precise! but.... the emotions are all over the place, aren't they? They are not precise, they are not neat...
Emotional nature is often despised..
We are frighten of it.. Men often frighten of emotions because we are brought up to believe that men do not cry. As a little boy, we were taught that boys do not cry so we'd try to live up to the standards of what boys are supposed to be.
However, the ideas of the society affect our minds and because of that we find emotions very embarrassing....
If we are rational and we have figured everything out, then we do not know what to do when people get emotional. If somebody starts crying, we will think, " What am I suppose to do?" Maybe we should say, "Cheer up; it's all right dear.." If we are very attached to rational thought, then we'll just tend to dismiss it with logic...
But emotions do not responds to logic.
Often they react to logic, but they do not respond. Emotion is a very sensitive thing and it works in a way that we sometimes do not comprehend.
If we have never really studied or tried to understand what it is to feel life and really opeed and allowed ourselves to be sensitive, then emotional things are very frightening and embarrassing to us.....