Chervie何憶文

When you were given a chance to shine, don't ask for permission to success..  Asking for permission opens the door for denial. I began to understand clearly that I could never make assumptions about how people perceive me.  You can never please anyone but yourself. Who cares if you have 3 plates of nasi lemak or 10 packs of peanuts? Who cares if you ran 21km or swam 5km today?  When you were put through several round of interviews, yet to have an answer from hiring manager. Frantically, asking for permission to move forward is asking for denial..  Go with the flow. Given that real fact in life...each day several door closed and others opened. Some promising than others. First round become second rounds, which become final round. Nothing was guaranteed until I had an offer in hand. Find your passion and you will find your strength.. There actually will be times in life when you should choose money over experience.  When an...

Different pose, different experience.. Love life to the fullest.

有人說 ： 責任感，是一個人能夠認同自己的責任。。。 很多時候，一般上的人都會把責任感和一個人的成熟度與他/她的年齡大小打成比例。。。我想這根本是兩會事。。。主要的關鍵要看對方是否有責任感，是個人的personality。。。 我不是愛情專家，也不是政治家。。。我只是想分析城市人的愛情故事。。。 這段日子里，我开始喜欢这个城市。。。它稳重、踏实、宽广、包容，给我家的感觉。我想自己也许需要一个两人之家了。 但，城市人的愛情故事往往都是很脆弱的，簡單的。。。容易愛上某某人，也很快的失去。。。 有的人一天都忍受不了没有性。。。寂寞的时间太长了吧？忍不住寂寞的侵襲？這都是没有情感的寄 托。。。这些话很可能轻易就击中了某某人，但這就是現實中的殘酷！ 我可對這一方面比較保守。。。很怕被傷害，也很怕被抛棄。。。。 愛的特別小心。。。也許，城市人都是一樣吧？是不是换个人说也会有一样的效果？ 這城市是多需要这样干干脆脆示爱的人。。。敢愛敢恨，也要勇敢的承認我们让彼此疯狂。。。为什么現實就不是這樣呢？ 最失望的事。。。有些人卻讓某某人猜測愛情強嫩度。。。当然这多少有些无奈，爱情的到来犹如漆黑夜色中落下无底悬崖，弄不清是真还是在梦中，挣扎与否，都是 越陷越深。。。 这种患得患失的心绪令人脆弱。。。真傷感！